Our house is on the market, and despite asking the estate agent to show people around they seem to forget or have an excuse. The upshot of which is I’m left to do most of the showing. Except there’s a problem. I’m not a sales person and I’m sort of out of love with my house, so saying things like “here’s the shitty kitchen that you can’t swing a cat in and if one door doesn’t smash you in the face, there are two more waiting to catch you by surprise” isn’t really the done thing. So I thought I’d run you through my routine and you can all enjoy a virtual tour of my house.
So very often the door bell is rang, this could be anything from 30 minutes early to 30 minutes late. The early ones often escape the horror of me in my pyjamas and rubber gloves by seconds, but are still treated to the red glowing face of a panic stricken woman with five messy children and a slightly crazed expression. I’m grinning from ear to ear, see I told you crazed, and say “Hi” in my best Hyacinth Bucket voice. I almost scream “come far?” as I try to desperately calm down and appear, well, normal. They step over the threshold and I pray that the Febreze is still working it’s magic in the downstairs loo, where 5 boys with crap aim all tend to wee, over everything. I’ve calmed down a little now, and they are asking about the neighbours and the location. I say the neighbours are lovely, and it’s a quiet street mostly. They comment about how light and airy and wide my hallway is. “I say yes, it’s a bit of a waste of space really” and then suddenly realize I’m trying to sell the damn house not condemn it!
I open the downstairs loo door, praying now to whoever will listen that the Febreze is still working and that no child suddenly decided to leave the viewers a little floating present before they were ushered out of the house. I breath a sigh of relief as I notice the lid is down, and the Febreze is definitely still working. I turn around and smile and then announce “this is the downstairs loo, it’s a bit bigger than your average downstairs loo” with a stewardess type wave of the hand as if I’m doing a safety talk. And because the wave of my hand was probably more of a jab than a sweep they feel obliged to stick their heads in and say “ooh yes, it is quite big”. Another satisfied smile spreads across my face, in a dimented fashion!
We now head in through the opposite door to the lounge and once again I announce “this is the lounge!” Something I’m sure is perfectly obvious by the sofas, the cushions, the television and the carpet. And then I say nothing, queue an awkward silence. Out of the corner of my eye I notice a discarded pair of socks down the side of the sofa, and nearly have a full on breakdown internally. Usually one of the viewers will say “ooh it’s very light in here isn’t it, the doors to the dining room are lovely” and once again I say “yes it is very light and airy, the doors are terrible to keep clean though with kids.” By this time I’m nearly biting the end of my tongue off, and hope they didn’t pick up on my negativity and that the crazed smiling and stating the obvious is stunning them …or something.
We move through into the kitchen and once again without any kind of brain engagement I announce “this is the kitchen.” By this time I am pretty sure the viewers think I’m an idiot. Comments of ‘nice size’ or ‘compact’ are usually spoken and then we go through to the dining room. And then comes the most ridiculous part. I insist on showing them the garage. I ask “do you want to see the garage?” A few have said no it’s ok, but I have said “no, come on I’ll show you the garage” and dragged them through the garden and into the garage as if I’m about to hold them hostage. The garage is nothing special, it’s a dumping ground with a mostly neglected running machine and a large freezer in it. It’s a bog standard garage and yet somewhere deep down I have this ridiculous urge to show everyone the garage. I need help! I sometimes wonder if the viewers are a little worried as to why I’m so eager to show them the garage, and if the crazed look and the stating of the obvious repeatedly doesn’t leave them a little worried for their lives whilst being march towards the outside building!
We then go upstairs and we go through the same motions, me announcing room after room what is it despite the glaringly obvious function of that room. They nod and smile as I make even stupider comments about how the bedroom would look bigger if it didn’t have a bunk in it, and that we’ve had a double bed in there. We go into my older boys room and I apologise for the ‘mess’ which consists of a gaming bean bag of the floor and a stray sock that I’ve missed on my last frantic sweep of the house.
Going into the bathroom I have an incessant need to point out that the shower and the bath are separate, no shit sherlock I’m sure they can see that, and that it’s a good size bathroom. We then go along the landing and we stop under the hatch and I go into a spiel about how it’s part boarded, it’s a good space and it has a ladder. If I’m really unlucky the ‘male’ will ask if he can see it. I bluntly say ‘no’, only because the damn cat has a tendency to escape up the ladder and I’m too little to be able to push it back up into the loft hatch. And I cannot face the tabby face meowing loudly from the hatch at me with his sad little face because he’s trapped. We’ve been there before, it was stressful!
Then we go into the littlest bedroom, it’s the box room. I say “you can fit a single bed in here”, only I’m not sure that I’m convincing. Purely because ever since we lived in this house I’ve had a baby habit and we have never managed to progress past a toddler bed in this room. They mention it as an office and I jump on that enthusiastically “yes yes, it would be brilliant as an office! I know quite a few houses in the street have this as an office!” I might as well have said “this bedroom is use nor ornament, you can’t do much else with it except turn it into an office”, I’m face palming in my head. Which I’m sure is showing on my face because the viewers are now looking at me as though they are concerned for my welfare!
We go into our bedroom and, yep you’ve guessed it, I victoriously announce that this is the master bedroom. I say it’s a good size and that we have quite a few cupboards and drawers. We don’t, we have a normal amount but I somehow can’t stop what can only be described as drivel coming from my mouth. I reluctantly point out the micro en-suite, I feel like I’m somehow shaming it. I then swiftly remind myself I’m trying to sell my house, so something equally batty spews from my mouth. “It doesn’t feel small though when you are in it”, let’s just think about that for a moment………yeah.
We come back down the stairs and I ask the viewers do they have any questions, the look between them says it all. They want to ask me if I’m on medication or whether I’m ok, but they politely shake their heads and say no. I ask them if they want to look at anything else, again they shake their heads and say no.
So the viewing ends where it started, in my wide, airy and light hallway. They are scrambling for the door, but I want to find out if they like my house so I start asking questions like “have you seen any other houses?” It’s always met with the same “yeah” I mean of course they have! But now the door is open and they are saying thank you, and before I can say goodbye they are down the path and away. I close the door, and slump. I’m shit at this. So it won’t surprise you to hear that we haven’t yet sold our house, and I’m not sure we will with me showing people around. So next time, I think it’s me who should be ushered out of the house whilst the estate agents actually do the job they are being paid for!